Bill, and everyone...
I read your entire post, Bill, and as a relative newcomer to this group I'm sorry to see that there's so much static between a few members. It became obvious to me in just the first few days that many group members have a problem with Rob Singer, although at that time I had no idea who is, or why his posts were unwelcome.
Since then, a few people have told me about Rob. Also since then, I've gone out of my way to read some of his columns, including his latest. While I don't agree with much of what he's saying, there's certainly nothing offensive about the columns, themselves. I do agree with some of what he says, i.e. that luck plays a huge part in success, but I think he puts much too little value on striving for perfect play, because let's face it, you've got to be sitting there when luck "happens" in order to take advantage of it, and good play usually keeps you there longer.
That said, I understand that Rob Singer is abrasive at times, and in this case, perhaps even offensive. But this alleged incident (and as an attorney, Bill, you understand that this incident is alleged, however true it may really be) took place in another group, another site, totally seperate from this one. Maybe his remarks were cruel, stupid and intentionally hurtful. If deemed so, maybe he should be banned from the group in which he made those remarks.
But he didn't say it here. I had heard early on that he's been banned here already. If so, there are sure a lot of people acting as if he's still posting every day!
I agree that important to keep conversations relatively impersonal and relatively polite. But no one should be banned from a site because of what they allegedly said on different site, regardless of what people might think of that person personally. Singer's remarks on that other site may have been despicable, and if he broke the rules of that site, he'll probably get banned.
Also Bill, I know what it's like to get slammed. As a craps "expert" with many articles under my belt, I was slammed bigtime by a faction on the Compuserve forum a couple of years ago. It's an unfortunate part of the mix, and usually these kinds of offenders are weeded out by being systematically ignored.
Hang in there!
lb
If it had happened on this site, it would be understand
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----- Original Message -----
From: Bill Velek
To: vp_heaven@yahoogroups.com ; vpFREE@yahoogroups.com ; winpoker@yahoogroups.com ; frugalvp@yahoogroups.com ; Tunica_Travelers@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, October 23, 2002 9:13 PM
Subject: [vpFREE] Why Rob Singer should be banned from EVERY vp group -- because he's no gentleman!
For those who think that this is off-topic, I apologize; just had to get
this off my chest. I'm cross-posting this message to a few of my other
regular groups because I'd like folks, including newbies, to see a prime
example of why Rob Singer has been banned on at least one VP group, and
why we'd all be better off without him on ANY of these groups.
Awhile back I added Rob Singer to my e-mail filter which automatically
deletes all messages coming from him; I did this not because I dislike
Rob, but because I was uninterested in most of what he writes. I must
confess that I have made a _few_ comments, from time to time, about his
flawed 'system', but I can't honestly remember saying anything bad about
him, as a person, except perhaps that he doesn't seem to understand or
believe mathematics -- something I find difficult to believe of someone
who is supposed to be an engineer (at least that's what I've heard).
Now I find this unwarranted, extremely distorted, and shamefully ugly
post about me on VP_Heaven, which I will now try to straighten out.
Then I am going to cancel my membership in that group so that I will
never need to read such drivel from him again, and I hope and implore
the moderators of my other favorite groups to PLEASE never let this guy
join our group.
Rob's post was prompted by this innocent comment I had put on VP_Heaven,
which made absolutely no reference whatsoever to Rob Singer or his 'system':
>>Why? Everyone who plays VP plays just a single session in life; it
>>starts with the first game of their life, and it ends with the last
>>game of their life. Pauses in your play during that single session
>>are mere intermissions -- whether they are 5 minutes to run to the
>>bathroom, an hour to get something to eat, 6 to 8 hours to get some
>>sleep, a week until the next weekend excursion, or a year until the
>>next trip to Vegas. The machines have no idea how long you're gone.
>>
>>My goal is always to have a good time with the money I've brought.
>>If I'm ahead, I don't stop playing -- I play for as long as I had
>>originally planned. If I'm behind, I keep on playing for as long as
>>I had originally planned -- so long as I still have the money I've
>>budgeted. Naturally, if I run out, I'm sensible enough to quit
>>without wiring home for the mortgage money. :-/
And for THAT, Rob Singer - Professional Gambler :-), with whom I haven't
communicated in months, saw fit to try to tear me apart by posting this
shameful reply (my comments are interspersed between his):
>In a message dated 10/23/2002 7:41:09 AM Eastern Daylight Time,
>rsinger1111@cox.net writes:
>
>Marsha: Remember, this guy posted that he goes to casinos to play one
>nickel at a time ...
Actually, I usually play one _quarter_ at a time because the odds are
better than the nickel machines; however, I'm not too proud to admit
that I have _often_ played nickels, and if I could find JOB 9/6 on a
nickel machine, especially at a bar, then I'd play it rather than
quarters -- and yes, I'd probably play one nickel at a time. It's my
money, my time, and my own business. If I have fun doing that, why
would Rob or anyone else care a hoot?
>... and sit at the bars to get as loaded as possible before he crashes
I won't deny that I like to drink, but I never said that I sit there and
get loaded. And I never said that I _ever_ drive after I've been
drinking; the fact is that I get a pretty good buzz, but my wife does
all the driving -- and she _might_ have one, or at the most, two alcohol
beverages all day long. But just like Rob always grossly exaggerates
just about every thing that comes out of his mouth, so he's done it now
with this defamatory statement about me.
>... and loses his allotted $80 per trip to somewhere in the South where
>he plays.
That would be in 'Tunica', Rob. Well, I don't need to be a big spender
like Rob to have a good time. I guess I'm just a cheapskate; is that a
crime? As long as I _tip_ well, which I _always_do_, I don't see why
the amount that I budget is anyone's concern. Maybe I can afford to
lose more ... and maybe I can't. That's my business.
>... Supposedly, his wife supports this ironic behavior of a man who
>purports to be a DWI attorney. ...
Irony?! What? That I drink but _DON'T_ drive, ... and yet I'm a DWI
attorney? _ALMOST_ irony, Rob, but you didn't quite make it, as usual.
And I never said what my wife supports, approves, disapproves, or how
she feels about anything. She doesn't like me to smoke, and I smoke.
I'm sure she doesn't like me eating as much as I do, since I'm
overweight. And she probably doesn't care that I drink as much as I do,
since she drinks hardly anything. So, ... is she supposed to divorce
me? ... or never come to the casinos with me? ... or nag me while I'm
gambling?
>... And I believe he is. It's easy for him to say
>that we play just one loooong session. He doesn't really know whether he's
>coming or going, ...
Yet _another_ personal attack, without any factual basis whatsoever.
>... and it shows in the foolish and incomprehensible posts he makes.
I'm surprised you bother trying to read them, Rob, if you find them so
foolish and incomprehensible. At least I was smart enough to start
filtering you when I felt that way about your posts; the only reason I
saw this was that someone else repeated it. And I can well understand
how my posts would be incomprehensible to you; maybe my posts are the
problem ... do you think? I'd be much more concerned if the many people
I respect and admire on these groups shared your sentiments, but somehow
I doubt that this is true -- judging from the numerous conversations
I've had with those folks.
>He's continually soft as a grape in what he writes, ...
Soft? Because I'm generally pretty damned polite? ... apologetic when I
make a mistake? ... and gentlemanly? It's called "good manners", Rob.
>using no thought
>or understanding other than that which supposedly tells him why he cannot
>win. ...
Well, I'm not the brightest nor the most gifted, and I've made my share
of mistakes -- which I've openly admitted here from time to time. But
at least I'm trying to learn and understand, rather than close-mindedly
insisting that I'm right and the all the other professional gamblers and
mathematicians are wrong. And I try my best to share what I've learned
with newbies, rather than to mislead them; yes, Rob, if your system
'really' worked, you are nonetheless misleading newbies by not fully
explaining all of your secret 'special plays'.
>... He's an amateur loser, ...
As opposed to a _professional_ loser?
>... and all he does is seek attention ...
You've posted constant rants, rambling and drivel, and have participated
in _EXTENSIVE_ flame wars and quarrels -- constantly and repeatedly
wasting Internet resources and the time of most members -- all in the
defense of your _inflated_ego_, and now you have the audacity to say
that all I do is seek attention.
>... on these boards with posts of wonder laced with corn.
?? Whatever! The rest of Rob's nonsensical juvenile tirade is snipped.
*****
Anyway, if anyone other than Rob has actually taken the time to read to
the end of this post, let me express my appreciation to all those of you
on VP_Heaven who have offered a warm welcome and useful advice. I hope
to continue exchanges with you fine folks on the various other groups
where I post, such as WinPoker, VP_Free, Frugal Video Poker, and Tunica
Travelers, but VP_Heaven has now lost all appeal to me; my final act
regarding VPHeaven will be to visit the Yahoogroups website and
terminate my membership.
Bill Velek
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