--- In vpFREE+AEA-yahoogroups.com, "Jean Scott" <queenofcomps+AEA-...> wrote:
<<The best written hints on cultivating hosts that we have seen is the
material by Jean Scott
in her Frugal Gambler books beginning with the first one. I and my
wife
have read them and re-read them many times, and in the process we have
cultivated good relations with a number of hosts. Don't push or
demand, but
do ask, and as the relation develops you will be amazed at what
happens.
Hosts like to cultivate customers, but good customers also need to
cultivate
hosts.>>
My most detailed discussions about using hosts is in "More Frugal
Gambling."
A whole chapter on the subject.
I devote usually two words on the subject, no need for an entire
chapter: Benjamin Franklin. For many of you, Alexander Hamilton would
be equally effective. Essentially, people in service positions enjoy
being recognized. So, I try to facilitate the recognition wherever
possible. Other hosts are so patently coin-operated it's really easy
to deal with them. They get what they want, you get what you want.
I'm certain without even reading said chapter, it's probably a must
read for those who play below the +ACQ-5 level.