A recent member posted about huge losses this year.
In my response I suggested he might be have become comfortable "losing".
Most of you understood what I meant. It's not a comfort level having to do with financial disaster. We probably don't know anyone who enjoys that. Rather, it's the casino itself making you comfortable enough so that in spite of consistent negative results you continue to return.
And the hole you dig usually gets deeper.
So why go back?
After a losing experience yesterday at the casino closest to my home I once again thought about my post. My gambling record at this particular casino shows much poorer results that many other places I've played. And I've got ample incentives from competitors to play elsewhere. So why go back to THAT losing place?
Perhaps I didn't feel like driving. I'd love to try the "Bob Dancer Recommended" machines at Barona. But that's 90 minutes more each way than what I drove yesterday.
Or perhaps it's the food. After all, when you frequent a casino you get to know where to go and what to order.
But these are superficial reasons compared to what I feel is the real one.
I think any of us VP players are competitors. We enjoy the feeling of overcoming obstacles and sometimes (but never always) being triumphant.
So the return to a "losing" casino may not have anything to do with location or comps.
Instead, I think we go back "chasing our money" not just to even the score but to prove our training and discipline can ultimately pay off.
So if that's the case. why did I recommend to the member with substantial losses to now move on and not go back?
My response is that like other competitions gambling can injure you to where you can no longer compete. The financial downturn becomes so extreme your chances of coming back are almost nil.
Not impossible, but almost.
Thus, at some point we all must draw a line that cannot be crossed. I've had a good year. But I know if I continue to return to my "losing" casino I risk squandering all the good fortune I've had elsewhere. And then some.
It might be the toughest decision a gambler has to make. But I encourage my fellow vpFREE memeber with unfortunate results to again consider my opinion. I wouldn't be offering that advice if I didn't often have to deal with accepting it myself.